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Feminization & sissyfication and why I don't do it

Everyday I am contacted by a sub or slave who is telling Me about how he wants to be a good girl and he might even send Me a picture of him in ladies underwear. If only they knew how much I dislike that whole thing, it is like scratching nails on the black board to me. I was never interested in sissyfication and feminization and it was one of the reasons to why I didn't want to have subs when I was younger. When I see subs/slaves dressed up, as very ugly shemales, I cannot help but feeling that it is done as a form of humiliation where the Domme forces Her sub to become a sissy and weak.  Here's the problem, no matter how hard I try, I cannot figure out why I should like to see a sub ridicule My own gender? I mean, I am a Domme, I am a Lady and a very sensual woman and I am proud of it. It doesn't give Me any pleasure to see men being a "sissy" because there is nothing weak about women what so ever. Telling a man that he is not a man so he has to wear panties is

Findoms and the men who complains about them.

I first want to say that I do really like Findom but it saddens Me to see the explosion of young role-play Findoms online and on the BDSM sites. Many of them seem to think that they have come up with a clever way to get some easy cash. I see sugarbabes talking about entering the Findom world because they can see the dollar signs. They don't realize that they are destroying the business for everyone, even the serious Dommes. They have no idea what subspace means and the responsibilities that comes with being a Domme. Why do I like Findom? Well it is easy, we live in an online world and distance can sometimes be problem and if you are in Canada and I am in Denmark it is hard for you to do anything to satisfy My needs online but what you can do is to give Me a day at the Spa or a gift card from My favorite shop, or you can just make My life easier in any way possible by exampling helping Me by giving Me money to hire a cleaning service. In that way you are happy because you are actu

First lesson free!

Welcome dear sub/slave. You might wonder why you are here, most likely did you contact Me on one of the BDSM-related sites around the world and I didn't like the way you approached Me or your behavior. I sent you here to give you a chance to correct your behavior so that so you don't make the same mistake again. (Or you might have ended up here because of a search engine but you might find some crumbs in the text below anyway) So sit your little behind down on the floor, right next to My feet and listen up! DO: When you contact a Domme, show Her some respect!  If She is a Domme like Me then She will have standards and She will expect quality not quantity. There are so many of you and so few of Us, so it really is Our market. And I rather have one high quality sub that understands what submission really means than 3 bedroom sub wannabes who haven't got a clue. Properly introduce yourself. Example: Hello my name is ***** I am from *** and I am *** years old.. Your